4. Recovering from Mistakes

In this episode of Gender in Focus, El and Kai dive into the crucial topic of recovering from mistakes, particularly common missteps like misgendering or using incorrect pronouns. Mistakes can feel overwhelming, but they don’t have to derail your relationships or progress as an ally.

We explore how to manage the emotions that come with making mistakes, why over-apologizing can create additional challenges, and how to use a straightforward, respectful approach to correct yourself. You’ll also learn how to respond thoughtfully when a mistake causes hurt, process your feelings without centring yourself, and understand why even correcting private missteps matters for building inclusive habits.

The key takeaway? Mistakes are a natural part of learning, and how you recover from them can make a big difference. Tune in for actionable advice on handling pronoun errors, fostering trust with trans and non-binary individuals, and creating a more inclusive environment through intentional actions.

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